How to talk to your boss and get out of the attempt alive

If the simple idea of asking your boss for something generates fear and anxiety in you, don’t miss these 5 tips to talk to your boss without drama.

1. Be clear about your objective

Make a list, organize your arguments and establish limits and objectives so that the conversation is fruitful.

2. Pick a good time

Although you can’t read your manager’s mind, you can certainly tell when he or she is having a bad day. No matter how fed up you are, expect to meet when he or she is in a good mood.

3. Be assertive

Try to state your needs in terms such as “I would like to”, “from my point of view”, etc., instead of making demands. Listen and show understanding to their comments.

4. Maintain professionalism

It goes without saying, but avoid raising your voice, use professional language and a calm tone. It helps not to wait until you are burned out to talk to your boss. Speak up sooner than you need to.

5. Control non-verbal language

Practice a sincere smile (as sincere as you can), maintain an upright and relaxed posture and don’t lose eye contact. You got it!